I don’t know of a coach, or human for that matter, who doesn’t drop into comparison from time to time. We’ve all heard the quote by Theodore Roosevelt, “Comparison is the thief of joy,” which is true…and, it’s something more—something useful. It’s a mighty teacher. One of the greatest and read more…

Filling workshops/retreats/groups is it’s own animal. The process starts with aliveness, inspiration and possibility. And as time goes on, it often turns into disappointment, frustration and resentment—which causes coaches to give up prematurely. In the below video I talk about why it’s important not to do that…and what to do read more…

Creating workshops, retreats and groups is of high interest to most coaches. Just last week I had five conversations with coaches in different stages of creating and leading groups. Some were just forming the focus and date for their event, others were in the throws of filling it, and others read more…

What happens when you hear a prospective client say, “I can’t afford it.” Or, “I have to talk with my spouse.” Or, “I need to think about it.” How do you respond to them? How do you respond within yourself? Do you shrink? Do you believe the person? Do you read more…

After a speaking event last week an audience member walked with me to my car. When we got close she said, “That’s a nice car! What kind is it?” “A Tesla,” I answered. She offered up, “Your husband must do really well.” I stopped. Looked her straight in the eye read more…