Money Isn’t Showing Up for Me!
Photo: Joshua Hoehne
The theme of money and needing more of it has been a consistent theme in my client sessions recently.
Learning to balance the desire for more while at the same time appreciating what we have is the opportunity. Basically strengthening holding two opposing ideas at once.
“The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposed ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function.” —F. Scott Fitzgerald
Our ego believes safety and security reside in our bank account so it wants the money or the path to get the money now. When left to its devices it either prompts frantic action or a collapse into inaction/distraction.
The thing to remember is that the ego does not and cannot live in the present moment. It lives in the land of past and future and is completely out of touch with the abundance you have today. So if its job is to keep you safe in your comfort zone, it will see not enough everywhere it looks and even play images of you failing in the future to inspire a response now.
This isn't because the ego is terrible. It's because it's on your side and wants what you want, but has an outdated/immature way of communicating.
Your job is to come back to your Self and to remember who you are and where you are today. Because NOW is the only space and time where you plug into Source. Life wants to help, but it can't if you are unplugged, doing life on your own, and in a dysregulated, fear-based response.
Below is an excerpt of some email coaching I offered a client. If you are in a moment of “needing” money or comparing where you are to where you want to be, take a read and answer the questions inside.
"The fact that money is showing up to provide what it is is AMAZING!
Money IS providing a lot right now. It's providing a family vacation, a roof over your head, food in your belly, education and so much more.
My sense is that you're wanting your Phase 10 life when you're currently at Phase 5.
Are you willing to let yourself build something over time? Something that's sustainable?
Are you willing to honor the choice you're making to work for yourself so that you can have the life you have now?
The more you compare where you are to where you want to be the more painful life becomes.
What's great about right now?
My encouragement is to consider that and let yourself be where you are.
You are on the path.
You are building something.
Keep staying the course.
Sometimes it takes the outside world time to reflect your growth."
When it comes to making money: Sometimes the answer is action. Sometimes the answer is patience. Sometimes it's rest and sometimes it's something else. You can only hear your Truth when you plug back in.
Allow this email to be a invitation to do just that.
With loving,
Amber
ps: I'm interviewing the man himself, Steve Chandler, on Behind-the-Scenes for Coaches this week. Are there any questions you'd like me to ask? What do you most want to know?
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