Grounding Amidst Uncertainty
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As I sit down to write this, my thoughts are with those impacted by the hurricanes hitting the East Coast. One of my friends had to evacuate, and our conversations during this time have been illuminating. In moments like these, we are often faced with a stark reminder of what truly matters in our lives.
For him, it became crystal clear: his dog, a few personal items—like his computer and passport—and, of course, himself. In the midst of chaos, he found clarity. It's so easy to lose sight of these essentials in our daily lives, isn't it? We become attached to our routines, belongings, and even our identities tied to our homes, cars, clubs, and more. Attachment is a familiar part of the human experience, and letting go—especially when it's not our choice—can feel incredibly painful.
Yet, here he is, navigating uncertainty from a grounded place. He accepts that he has what he needs in this moment. Tomorrow may unfold differently, and if that is the case, he will respond as needed. We've been revisiting the challenges he has faced in the past to remind him of his resilience, wisdom, and strength.
This resilience is not unique to him; it's within all of us. Our systems, just like his, are equipped to handle uncertainty, heartbreak, and even devastation. I'm not suggesting that the process is easy or devoid of pain. Witnessing the devastation in Asheville, NC; the Middle East; Ukraine; and so many places around the world is heart-wrenching.
But what I know for sure is that in these moments of destruction, Love rises to the surface. I experienced this firsthand on 9/11 while living in NYC. That day brought out both the absolute worst and the most extraordinary best in humanity. Love manifested in countless ways then and across the globe now—whether through donating supplies, offering financial resources, volunteering at local organizations, or simply checking in on a friend who feels lost and scared.
You are made of Love, and Love is big enough to embrace any moment. It can hold your heartbreak, your grief, and your fear. You have access to this healing and comfort 24/7 because it exists inside of you. Love doesn't take a break, even though it may feel distant at times.
As we navigate these intense moments, I encourage you to reflect on what truly matters. What do you hold dear? How can you appreciate that even more today?
Even in chaos, we have the capacity to rise, to connect, and to support one another. If you feel inspired, reach out to someone who may need a listening ear, lend a helping hand, or simply share your heart.
With loving,
Amber
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